Personal & Kingdom Mentoring
A Mother. A Mentor. 2x award‑winning author and international speaker. Dr. DeNae LeMay guides women into purpose, vision, and royal living — rooted in over 30 years of ministry and life experience.
A Letter from Dr. DeNae
— Dr. DeNae LeMay
I am so excited to have received your interest in joining my Developing Queens Mentoring group. Your decision to be part of this empowering process is one of the best decisions you could ever make.
As you commit to the full mentoring process, I believe you will discover gifts, abilities, and confidence that were not clearly recognized before starting this journey. It is my goal to pour heavily into your life with the wealth of knowledge, wisdom, and experience I have gained over my lifetime — and my determination to have you operating at your maximum potential in a short period of time.
Congratulations — you are filled with purpose, vision, and royal living. It's also my desire to challenge you in such a way that encourages you to think about who you really are, and what you are destined to accomplish.
Become a Mentee — Click Here to RegisterMentoring Paths
Sessions are offered in person, by phone, and in small groups — beginning with an initial assessment to define your goals.
A higher level of support across your spiritual, practical, and personal life. Together we turn destiny roadblocks into destiny stepping stones, centered on the message of the Kingdom of God.
Learn moreA guided process designed to help you achieve specific outcomes or enhance every area of life — reaching your purpose-filled, God‑ordained goals faster than you would alone.
Learn moreStart with an initial assessment to clearly define your short and long-term goals — and build the foundation for your personal, spiritual, and professional development.
The initial session is $250, which reserves your date and time.
Success Stories
It's almost impossible to share about the amazing Dr. DeNae LeMay in just a few sentences, but I will try. If class, royalty, anointing, and beauty were combined in a package, that would be Dr. DeNae LeMay. Her presence alone causes a change in those that are around her. Gorgeous is what she is, but her priceless beauty comes from within. When she speaks she causes the Queen to rise up within you. Her timeless message to women catapults them into their position of Royalty, and they are immediately shifted into their Kingdomship. Dr. DeNae LeMay is an answer to a generation of women who have lost their position of Royalty.
Dr. DeNae LeMay is a beautiful gift to women. Her story is inspiring and speaks of God’s amazing redemptive power. She is one who will be a model for other women on how to build Godly homes and obey the leading of the Holy Spirit, leading to an uncommon harvest and a lasting legacy. Dr. DeNae is a true gem for this generation.
Dr. DeNae has been an inspiration for me since before we ever had a relationship. Her lifestyle has encouraged me from afar to live a Godly life. I always thought to myself, “God truly shines through her, and she has a beauty that only God can create. I want to have a godly glow like that.” Dr. DeNae and Dr. Stacy have mentored my husband and I generously and they continue to walk alongside us in this life and marriage journey. I hope to be what Dr. DeNae is to me to other young girls and women one day. Thank you, Dr. DeNae!
Dr. DeNae LeMay has been a leading mentor of this generation. This accomplished woman has established a high standard for marriage, friendship, and motherhood. She embodies class, beauty, and elegance. I have been fortunate to be mentored by Dr. DeNae. She is truly a shining example and sets the bar high in her achievements while still remaining authentic in all her endeavors. I am honored to have had the opportunity to watch and learn from this incredible woman who has left a lasting impact in my life.
When I think of Dr. DeNae, I get excited! She ignited me to pursue God’s Kingdom purpose and destiny for my life. She mentors me in a Godly way each time we speak. She consistently demonstrates the Kingdom of God and has proven principles that I have applied in my life today, with tremendous results. She challenges me to go higher and higher with Love & Correction. I haven’t been the same since meeting her. Dr. DeNae has shown me a true model of a Kingdom wife & marriage. She exudes royalty, kingdom excellence, virtue & class. Dr. DeNae is an outstanding mother & friend. I honor and admire her tremendously. “Then she spoke out with a loud voice and said, ‘Blessed are you among women…’” — Luke 1:42 NKJV. Dr. DeNae LeMay, you are blessed among women.
Dr. DeNae is a lady of poise, elegance and class. She demonstrates this in her appearance, her speech, and the way she carries herself as Royalty. She is confident in her gifts and abilities given by God. Dr. DeNae has had a great impact on my life personally and spiritually. I have learned how to be an effective help mate to my husband. I learned how to pray and care for my children equally but differently according to their personalities. I have learned how to grow, mature, and stand in faith as a Woman of God. I am forever grateful for her presence in my life. Thank you Dr. DeNae!
If asked to describe Dr. DeNae using four words, I would choose “integrous, forthright, consistent, and compassionate.” My first introduction to Dr. DeNae was through video while in attendance at a memorial service. Prior to the service I had sought God concerning a mentor, and it was at that moment He answered my prayer. Over the past eight years of our mentor and mentee relationship, I’ve found Dr. DeNae to be a God-fearing, honest, reliable, loving, supportive, virtuous woman, role model, and mentor. Her ability to provide sound yet Godly advice, wisdom, and counsel has remained impeccable. I’ve gained a greater level of insight concerning my identity and purpose, as well as confidence, healing, and deliverance through Developing Queens. I count it a privilege and an honor to have had the opportunity of being mentored by such a sincere, anointed, and powerful woman of God. My life is forever impacted and changed because of Dr. DeNae’s presence, mothering skills, counsel, and mentorship. I am that forever mentee. — Your Daughter in Mentorship
Dr. DeNae is truly one of a kind, she is a woman called to rise for such a time as this and be a voice that has enlightened women of royalty to embrace their God-given identity. As one of our guests here in the Philippines several times on Kingdom Talk, she has impacted many lives through the powerful messages she has shared on this platform. She passionately inspires and empowers women to rise and function according to God’s original design, charging them to walk in dominion and authority with a renewed mindset that is aligned with Kingdom priorities. She is a woman of wisdom who walks closely with God and faithfully fulfills her unique assignment, while influencing lives and raising up women to become all that God has created them to be. I am grateful to learn from such an amazing woman of God.
Dr. DeNae’s mentoring has been a game changer for me. Her words have come from a depth of wisdom delivered with grace. She has a way of going beyond the surface ever so gently and encouraging you to deal with what lies beneath. The nurturing and spirit of mothering she has extended to me have been priceless. I have received an impartation and lessons which have thrust me forward and prevented costly mistakes. She has exemplified how to be a godly wife and mother with her family life. Her life before me has been a demonstration of courage, strength, grace, love and consistency, seasoned with humor.
Dr. DeNae has been a Godly example of a woman, wife, and mother for me. Through her mentorship, transformation has taken place in each of these areas in my life. I have learned how to transform my thinking into a woman of royalty and influence. I have also developed in my role as a wife and mother through her example, godly wisdom and counsel. I have experienced success by following her counsel and instructions when facing challenges in certain areas of my life. I am honored to have such an amazing woman like her in my life.
Dr. DeNae LeMay is the definition of a true mother. Since meeting Dr. DeNae she has remained classy, inspirational, a model of beauty and wisdom, and a physical representation of what womanhood should be. She is always pouring into me and others, even in areas that I haven’t discussed with her, but she knows. Even her correction warms my heart. Dr. DeNae is ten-toes down in her approach, delivery, integrity, and all the ways that matter. She is the role model that I have dreamt of and what this world truly needs. She is necessary because she provides wisdom in so many aspects and spaces of life from a woman’s point of view. If you haven’t booked a session with her, you are truly missing out on your life’s solutions.
Royalty is not a trend, it is a truth. Royalty has character, Royalty has integrity, Royalty communicates in truths, Royalty speaks with conviction, Royalty remains planted. Sometimes we cannot get to where we are destined to be because we keep uprooting ourselves… These words by Dr. DeNae at the Global Kingdom Leadership Summit 2022 were not just my first divine encounter with the powerful Kingdom Queen but also my first insight into her personality, which I have come to deeply admire, respect and emulate as a mentor. Since this encounter, I’ve consistently been inspired by her ministry as I read, listen, and watch online as a powerful mentor representing my ultimate goal of being an all-round trailblazing woman in Kingdom leadership: she is a sound teacher of the Word, an absolute definition of “Help-Meet” to her husband Dr. Stacy LeMay, evidenced in the brilliant, successful children they have raised. Most especially, listening to her tell the story of her past and matching this story to the glory she emerged to be today is the greatest impact of all. Even though she is an extraordinary author with depth and revelation in her publications, her life by itself is a powerful book for every woman who has been through the worst nightmares of life, searching for the reality of outrageously different outcomes. Dr. DeNae is the living evidence of what she preaches: “Royalty is the DNA planted in you from the foundations of the world.” Not circumstances, not relationships, not traumas, definitely not the past. Her kindness, empathy, teachings and messages continue to resonate in my life to shape me into a godly wife, mother and servant of the Most High God. I sincerely appreciate her for her contribution to my life, ministry and family.
Watch Her Story
In this interview on Grace and Truth Talks, Dr. DeNae opens up about the most defining moment of her life and how she found her way from devastating loss to a ministry built on forgiveness and Kingdom purpose.
This conversation includes details about grief and loss.
Originally published on Grace and Truth Talks. Shared here with their permission.
Full Biography
Dr. DeNae LeMay is an internationally respected speaker, author, mentor, entrepreneur, and transformational voice.
Her life is a remarkable testimony of resilience, redemption, forgiveness, and Kingdom purpose. She has a rare ability to combine biblical wisdom, practical leadership, and Kingdom insight in her delivery, and has become a trusted voice to women, families, leaders, and entrepreneurs seeking healing and lasting transformation.
Dr. DeNae was born in Hawthorne, Florida, and carries a story of extraordinary perseverance. She earned a full academic scholarship to Bethune-Cookman University, where she graduated Cum Laude with a Bachelor of Science degree in Criminology and Pre-Law, while serving as Ms. Senior.
Shortly after graduation, she married her husband of more than three decades, author and international speaker Dr. Stacy LeMay. Together they built multiple successful businesses and expanded into real estate investment, owning an impressive portfolio of residential and luxury waterfront properties throughout Florida and North Carolina, establishing themselves as respected entrepreneurs and investors.
Yet behind the success was a story few could imagine. At the age of twenty-one, while completing her senior year of college, Dr. LeMay's life was forever altered when her mother was tragically murdered by her father. Overnight she found herself navigating unimaginable grief while simultaneously caring for her younger sister, supporting her grandmother, completing her education, and choosing forgiveness over bitterness.
Rather than allowing tragedy to define her future, Dr. LeMay allowed God to transform her pain into purpose. Today, her message of forgiveness, identity, healing, and Kingdom living has impacted countless lives across churches, conferences, leadership events, women's gatherings, and media platforms.
Known for her elegant communication style, profound biblical insight, and practical wisdom, Dr. LeMay speaks with both compassion and authority on topics including forgiveness, emotional healing, marriage, family, identity, leadership, mentorship, purpose, and Kingdom principles for everyday living.
She is also a certified and trusted marriage mentor alongside her husband, helping couples strengthen their relationships through biblical foundations, healthy communication, and restored covenant.
Dr. LeMay is the mother of four adult children and considers her greatest earthly accomplishment the legacy of faith and family she and her husband have built together.
Whether speaking to thousands from a stage or one person across a table, Dr. DeNae LeMay carries one unwavering message:
Her mission is simple yet profound: to heal hearts, restore families, develop leaders, and reveal the heart of the Father to a hurting world.
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